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    Ramadhan, the month of fasting

    *Below is my personal opinion and my aim is not to hurt or target anyone. It also applies to me too.*

    One thing I have felt with people is that some have made Ramadhan a month of eating instead of fasting. It is felt as if fasting is a some sort of challenge that by overcoming you are rewarded with food and different dishes, snacks etc. in the evening. Ramadhan is a month in which you discipline yourself to become a pious Muslim and should be aiming to behave as perfectly as a Muslim should, and should be performing the rest of your religious duties instead of only abstaining from fasting for a certain period of time. Whereas the compulsory fasting exists for this month only, it is there to discipline us for the rest of the 11 months too.

    And what further annoys me are phrases like "Mujhe roza lagg gaya hai", which can explained as that you are feeling hungry and that the fast is getting to you. Fine, go and break it! You are not doing anyone a favour by fasting and neither is anyone forcing you to fast. Before you fast, you should be knowing Who it is for: It is for God Almighty and if you are God-fearing you will realise that saying such things after you fast aren't any pleasant. On top of all is the constant counting of hours and minutes on your fingers as if it is some punishment.

    As long as you are healthy enough to fast, and are observing a fast already, you should be able to pull off, unless something untoward happens to you, in which case you can break your fast any time.

    "On no soul do We place a burden greater than it can bear. Before Us is a record which clearly shows the truth: They will never be wronged " - Qur`an 23: 62.

    When you are fasting, God sees it as a noble deed and He helps with it so that you go through it without much trouble, since it will otherwise be a burden and a some sort of punishment. Place your trust in God, whereas it is natural to feel weak and hungry, you should remind yourself the whole purpose of fasting and Who you are fasting for, instead of getting all noisy about it. Each time you remind yourself of it, you will feel patient and feel the strength to go through it.

    And when the time arrives to break your fast, don't rush to the food and count the seconds (and I am not saying you should be delaying it which would be senseless). Be patient and offer your prayer to God that He accepts your fast.

    May God reward all those who benefit from this great month, a blessing, and may God accept everyone's fast. Amen!


    "It sounds like you have a great strength of character and strong will" - Ellyse Perry about me.

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    ^Each and everything you said there made perfect sense. May Allah bless you for those wonderful reminders! Indeed, a fast for a muslim is much, much more than merely a day of starvation.

    Ramadaan is a blessing unto us...Allah Ta'alahs merciful manner of getting us closer to Him. Each Sajda gets you closer to Allah...so in taraweeh...every day...we are given an oppurtunity of getting 40 times closer to the Being who loves us more than we can ever imagine!

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    2 hours to go until Iftar. My stomach's growling.


    Hai yeh Josh-e-Junoon, hai yeh apna yaqeen, ke jo tum mein hai dum, woh kisi mein nahin!

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    Funny Ramadhan picture

    Just thought of posting it here as well......

    Quote Originally Posted by DHONI183 View Post


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    Quote Originally Posted by Cricket-o-Saurus View Post
    ^Each and everything you said there made perfect sense. May Allah bless you for those wonderful reminders! Indeed, a fast for a muslim is much, much more than merely a day of starvation.

    Ramadaan is a blessing unto us...Allah Ta'alahs merciful manner of getting us closer to Him. Each Sajda gets you closer to Allah...so in taraweeh...every day...we are given an oppurtunity of getting 40 times closer to the Being who loves us more than we can ever imagine!
    Thanks for your words of support and encouragement, and for the good wishes of course.


    "It sounds like you have a great strength of character and strong will" - Ellyse Perry about me.

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    Last ashara of Ramadan has begun. Let us inshallah increase our ibadah and not miss out on laylatul qadr.



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    Wow, that was fast! Ramadan, and even Eid gone! Missing Ramadan.


    Hai yeh Josh-e-Junoon, hai yeh apna yaqeen, ke jo tum mein hai dum, woh kisi mein nahin!

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    BTW, please don't think that now that Ramadan is over, we start doing bad deeds. We should continue at least some Ibaadah in our daily life (i.e praying 5 times a day, reading Quran every now and then etc). I'm not saying worship the whole day. But really praying 5 times a day is Fard and takes barely even an hour. Also, reading maybe 1 page of Quran each day takes no more than 5 minutes. Can't we spend 1 hour of our daily 12-14 hours on the Lord who blessed us with a life?


    Hai yeh Josh-e-Junoon, hai yeh apna yaqeen, ke jo tum mein hai dum, woh kisi mein nahin!

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    Eagerly waiting for Ramadan 2014

    I am really excited for ramadan 2014 ..Can't wait anymore.Ramadan always brings something special.This will be the first time i will spend ramadan without any of my family member.. i had never been that much excited for ramdan before in my entire life . i will try to read and understand Quran in this Ramadan (IA)

    whatare you plans for this year ramadan?

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    Me too. Love it for many reasons.

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    Special Month..hope its a blessed, fruitful (pun intended) month for all of us. Ameen

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    Yup, sure thing! I love the atmosphere....also a great way to lose weight.

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    Watch this!!!!!!!!!!!!


    "The hypocrite seeks for faults, the believer seeks for excuses"-Imam al Ghazali (ra)

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    Why am I not surprised Mamoon can't wait for Ramadan?

    But yeah, me neither. I wish it would hurry up and come already.


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    Quote Originally Posted by SwingNSeam View Post
    Special Month..hope its a blessed, fruitful (pun intended) month for all of us. Ameen
    Ameen.

    Allahummah inni ala zikirika wa shukrika wa husni ibadatika


    "Beware of this world, for it is sweet and tempting.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Laparwah View Post
    Yup, sure thing! I love the atmosphere....also a great way to lose weight.
    Thatz a myth.!!! I usually gain weight during Ramadan


    "Beware of this world, for it is sweet and tempting.

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    I honestly feel its coming too early, Would've preferred if it came 3 months later. Doing Ramadan in the summer can be long.

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    Quote Originally Posted by 96NotOut View Post
    Why am I not surprised Mamoon can't wait for Ramadan?

    But yeah, me neither. I wish it would hurry up and come already.
    That's not the only reason.

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    A month that shows everyone the amazing human potential for helping, caring and being part of a community

    Also a month that piques the interests of many non Muslims so gives you an opportunity to show them what Islam is all about.

    Also a month of this question (if you're overseas in non Muslim lands) :

    'What?! Not even water?! '


    Quote Originally Posted by La Haine movie
    Jusqu'ici tout va bien. L'important nest pas la chute, cest latterrissage.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Saqs View Post
    A month that shows everyone the amazing human potential for helping, caring and being part of a community

    Also a month that piques the interests of many non Muslims so gives you an opportunity to show them what Islam is all about.


    Also a month of this question (if you're overseas in non Muslim lands) :

    'What?! Not even water?! '
    Unfortunately, happens on paper only because the only thing that happens in Ramadan is that people simply don't eat or drink; otherwise, there is no change.

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    Inshallah my family will be over in Qatar too, plus Ramadan is special in GCC anyways.. The atmosphere , the food and not to mention the shorter working hours


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    Mee too,what a month of blessings and it has some special atmosphere what I love


    Kyun Ziyaan Kaar Banun, Sood Framosh Rahun
    Fikr-e-Farda Na Karun, Mahw-e-Ghum-e-Dosh Rahun

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mamoon View Post
    Me too. Love it for many reasons.
    Hmm.

    I know one of the reasons.


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    I really love Ramadan. I have many reasons for it.


    "Don't just raise the standard, be the standard."

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    Yes.

    Only drawback is 22 hour Roza here so will be tough. Working hours will be same so long days ahead.


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    Good times ahead...


    O man! surely you must strive (to attain) to your Lord,
    A hard striving until you meet Him.

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    Quote Originally Posted by GLORY OF '92 View Post
    Yes.

    Only drawback is 22 hour Roza here so will be tough. Working hours will be same so long days ahead.


    Whoa, that is massive!


    "Don't just raise the standard, be the standard."

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    Here in italy it will be around 19-20 hours
    Last edited by Azzurri; 22nd May 2014 at 12:20.

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    So you guys won't even get time to digest aftaari and it'll be sehri already?


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    I love aftaari, but I can't even walk afterwards. I simply lie down.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pakistani_Legend View Post
    Hmm.

    I know one of the reasons.
    Yes.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mamoon View Post
    Unfortunately, happens on paper only because the only thing that happens in Ramadan is that people simply don't eat or drink; otherwise, there is no change.
    Might not happen where you live or your local mosque or locality.

    I see a big difference and I've fasted in Ramadan in many different places around the world and there's a discernible difference.


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    Jusqu'ici tout va bien. L'important nest pas la chute, cest latterrissage.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Saqs View Post
    Might not happen where you live or your local mosque or locality.

    I see a big difference and I've fasted in Ramadan in many different places around the world and there's a discernible difference.
    I wish to fast in those place too one day. By the way, when was the last time you spent the whole Ramadan in Pakistan?

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    Last year.

    Perhaps it's the local masjid and the atmosphere here.

    Year before that was Aus. Also did it in Saudi.

    Feel the same sense all places.


    Quote Originally Posted by La Haine movie
    Jusqu'ici tout va bien. L'important nest pas la chute, cest latterrissage.

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    I see no visible difference in the attitude of the people (myself included) in Ramadan compared to other months. All talk and little action.

    I have spent one in Lahore and a lot of people don't even fast there.

    "Ramzaan jaanay Pathan jaanay" was what a few people told me.

    A personal decision though, nothing to frown at.

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    We're blessed to live through another Ramadan!

    It's almost like you can stretch your hand out and touch the blessings that are showered on us..

    I can't wait for it


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    I would try to cut on the things I shouldn't do. Will help me overcome them completely if I can stay strong for a month.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mamoon View Post
    I see no visible difference in the attitude of the people (myself included) in Ramadan compared to other months. All talk and little action.

    I have spent one in Lahore and a lot of people don't even fast there.

    "Ramzaan jaanay Pathan jaanay" was what a few people told me.

    A personal decision though, nothing to frown at.
    Do not generalise.

    You need to visit the Badshahi masjid at sun-down to see the way Lahoris celebrate Ramadan, if your local masjid won't do.


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    Quote Originally Posted by blinding light View Post
    Do not generalise.

    You need to visit the Badshahi masjid at sun-down to see the way Lahoris celebrate Ramadan, if your local masjid won't do.
    I am just saying what I saw.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mamoon View Post
    I am just saying what I saw.
    At least acknowledge that your perspective is incomplete.


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    Quote Originally Posted by blinding light View Post
    At least acknowledge that your perspective is incomplete.
    I never claimed that it is. I was simply narrating my experience.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mamoon View Post
    I never claimed that it is. I was simply narrating my experience.
    Okay.

    Now you know that there is another side things as well..


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    Of course there has to be, because I have seen many people who like to fast even they don't like to pray.

    Fasting can be entertaining too. It's eventful.

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    There is.

    You need to revisit Lahore to discover it


    He who fears he will suffer, already suffers because he fears.
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    You can call it generalisation but I can guarantee you that more people fast in Peshawar than they do Lahore, even though it's a much small city by population. Not saying its important, just a cultural thing.

    Everyone fasts here and people are way too intolerant about it which is wrong. They won't care about praying but not fasting is unthinkable for some odd reason. I have never met more than let's say 10 people here who don't fast but I met three times more in a month in Lahore.

    I personally don't see much reasoning behind fasting or logic for that matter. It's just something I do for the sake of it. It's a fun little month though.

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    And I can guarantee you're wrong.

    From what I know, the elite classes (who never cared much for religion) don't fast. People far removed from religion especially dont - its not like we don't have that variety in Lahore.

    But majority of Lahore does fast.


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    We don't even have that variety here. The elite class don't care about religion but will still fast for the sake of it. It's really stupid though.

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    Fasting? Stupid? It's the most humbling experience out there.


    He who fears he will suffer, already suffers because he fears.
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    Fasting for the sake of it is stupid, if you don't strive to change yourself or remain steadfast.

    I mean what's the point if you are going to enjoy liquor after Iftar?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mamoon View Post
    Fasting for the sake of it is stupid, if you don't strive to change yourself or remain steadfast.

    I mean what's the point if you are going to enjoy liquor after Iftar?
    Are you calling yourself stupid then?

    Agreed.


    He who fears he will suffer, already suffers because he fears.
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    I make an honest attempt to change myself in Ramadan and I enjoy the whole experience, but I admit that I find this whole concept quite pointless. Maybe that makes me stupid yes!

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    You make an effort, that's not pointless in any manner.


    He who fears he will suffer, already suffers because he fears.
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    24 Days to go

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    every time you think you've got your diet and work-out routine all figured out, this month comes along like a troll.

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    Where I am currently, the fast is going to be as long as 18 hours. Coupled with my full-course load during the summer semester, all I can say is Allah khair hi karay, InshAllah!


    He who fears he will suffer, already suffers because he fears.
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    Quote Originally Posted by venomousx View Post
    every time you think you've got your diet and work-out routine all figured out, this month comes along like a troll.


    So you ain't gonna fast or gonna fast grudgingly.

    By the way, killer profile pic.


    I am not one of you. I never was. I am not one of them either.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sensible-indian-fan View Post


    So you ain't gonna fast or gonna fast grudgingly.

    By the way, killer profile pic.
    Gonna fast bro iA nothing beats the sweetness of this month...gonna try to fit in my work-out and protein intake though haha

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    Theres a hidden sweetness
    in the stomachs emptiness.

    We are lutes, no more, no less.
    If the sound box is stuffed
    full of anything, no music.

    If the brain and the belly
    are burning clean with fasting,
    every moment a new song
    comes out of the fire.

    The fog clears, and a new
    energy makes you run up the
    steps in front of you.

    Be emptier and cry like
    reed instruments cry.
    Emptier, write secrets with
    the reed pen.

    When youre full of food and drink,
    Satan sits where your
    spirit should, an ugly metal
    statue in place of the Kaaba.

    When you fast, good habits gather
    like friends who want to help.

    Fasting is Solomons ring.
    Dont give it to some illusion
    and lose your power.

    But even if youve lost all
    will and control, they come
    back when you fast,
    like soldiers appearing out
    of the ground, pennants
    flying above them.

    A table descends to your
    tent, Jesuss table.
    Expect to see it, when you
    fast, this table spread with
    other food better than the
    broth of cabbages.
    Maulana Rumi.

    In sha' Allah we'll all come out better


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    I'm eagerly awaiting it too, which may surprise people. I wait for it year round. It's the most special time of the year.

    The Sufi sheikhs say that spirituality and physicality are very often inversely proportional. Increase in one and you'll decrease in the other. Fasting from a purely physical standpoint works because the decrease in food does for the most part incline one to focus on matters of the soul. And that actually reinforces itself, because the increase in spirituality cuts down on hunger. I've found that despite the long fast, a few dates and a glass of milk is perfectly filling at Iftar time.

    I've found I enjoy it here more than I did in Pakistan. Back home, sehri and Iftar were so often a license to gorge oneself. Here, I've invariably not had an extended family for Iftar parties or access to the traditional Iftar junk food. I've had to focus on nutrition, and had to have normal meals.

    The best part though is that here its an incredibly intimate experience rather than one in which everybody is participating. I find that I like the intimate experience better, although the other one isn't without it's charm.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Nostalgic View Post
    I'm eagerly awaiting it too, which may surprise people. I wait for it year round. It's the most special time of the year.

    The Sufi sheikhs say that spirituality and physicality are very often inversely proportional. Increase in one and you'll decrease in the other. Fasting from a purely physical standpoint works because the decrease in food does for the most part incline one to focus on matters of the soul. And that actually reinforces itself, because the increase in spirituality cuts down on hunger. I've found that despite the long fast, a few dates and a glass of milk is perfectly filling at Iftar time.

    I've found I enjoy it here more than I did in Pakistan. Back home, sehri and Iftar were so often a license to gorge oneself. Here, I've invariably not had an extended family for Iftar parties or access to the traditional Iftar junk food. I've had to focus on nutrition, and had to have normal meals.

    The best part though is that here its an incredibly intimate experience rather than one in which everybody is participating. I find that I like the intimate experience better, although the other one isn't without it's charm.
    The Sufi sheikhs have truly figured it all out.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Saqs View Post
    The Sufi sheikhs have truly figured it all out.
    Yup. They can fly too. Ask them about it and they'll give you those trademark self-deprecating answers like "insects fly" etc.

    But I mean, whether they admit it or not, it's gotta be fun right?


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    Yeah I have asked one of them about this. I have also heard tales of teleporting. Pretty intense stuff.


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    Jokes aside, they don't get to choose which, if any, karamat they are blessed with. And they see it as a test. And they say if one focuses on the karamaat one is missing the point.

    But I have to admit these supra-physical skills are very appealing.


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    I used to fast "religiously" till last 5 years ago. Since then I've developed a condition where I can't be without water/food for more than a few hours. Also, if I skip a meal, I get extremely fatigued, my mind starts shutting down and I get very irritable and become totally unable to focus on anything. I can't even fast for 4-5 waking hours let alone 12 hours. The only way I can keep a fast is if I eat a huge meal at Sehri and then sleep for the next 10-12 hours. Obviously, that's not possible nowadays as I work like a dog, sometimes working 18 hours straight plus that's no way to fast. I guess I can do that on an off day but still, just too much to undertake. Kudos to all those who are physicality and mentally able to fast. Please pray for this gunahgaar if you can.

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    Quote Originally Posted by saadibaba View Post
    I used to fast "religiously" till last 5 years ago. Since then I've developed a condition where I can't be without water/food for more than a few hours. Also, if I skip a meal, I get extremely fatigued, my mind starts shutting down and I get very irritable and become totally unable to focus on anything. I can't even fast for 4-5 waking hours let alone 12 hours. The only way I can keep a fast is if I eat a huge meal at Sehri and then sleep for the next 10-12 hours. Obviously, that's not possible nowadays as I work like a dog, sometimes working 18 hours straight plus that's no way to fast. I guess I can do that on an off day but still, just too much to undertake. Kudos to all those who are physicality and mentally able to fast. Please pray for this gunahgaar if you can.
    I will pray for you and all those that can't fast.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Badsha View Post
    I will pray for you and all those that can't fast.
    Thanks brother!


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    Quote Originally Posted by saadibaba View Post
    Thanks brother!
    Saadibaba, if you can't keep the roza, at least take the iftar.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CricketCartoons View Post
    Saadibaba, if you can't keep the roza, at least take the iftar.
    Feel guilty about it but when I get invited to Iftaar parties, I have no option but to stuff myself with fried pakoras, chat masala, dahi bare etc. actually it's hard to imagine but when I used to fast, I would gain weight during the month rather than lose it. From that only you can understand my dedication to iftari food items.


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    That poem by Rumi is soul-stirring!

    Quote Originally Posted by venomousx View Post
    Gonna fast bro iA nothing beats the sweetness of this month...gonna try to fit in my work-out and protein intake though haha
    I understand, I've to work out my own diet-exercise schedule too!

    Hopefully, 2kms walk four days a week (during the fast) and a semi-intense post-iftar workout (stepper, perhaps a bit of cycling or elliptical) should suffice.

    But in this month, its as if the atmosphere changes! :')


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    For all of you in the US, get yourselves some Medjool dates. They can be a bit hard to find. Deglet Noor is the standard date here, and it is horrible.

    Medjool is like manna from heaven. And its so filling. Like I said earlier, a few of these dates with some milk is a perfectly satisfying iftar.


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    Also Ramzan is a great way to ease yourself into Intermittent Fasting, the latest and greatest of fad diets. Except it actually works. I've had great results. Works particularly well for lifters.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Nostalgic View Post
    For all of you in the US, get yourselves some Medjool dates. They can be a bit hard to find. Deglet Noor is the standard date here, and it is horrible.

    Medjool is like manna from heaven. And its so filling. Like I said earlier, a few of these dates with some milk is a perfectly satisfying iftar.
    Sorry bhai. My Iftaar is more like a TOTAL PIG OUT. Not some dates and milk..

    ...but I'm going to change that this time iA. Going to remain human.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nostalgic View Post
    For all of you in the US, get yourselves some Medjool dates. They can be a bit hard to find. Deglet Noor is the standard date here, and it is horrible.

    Medjool is like manna from heaven. And its so filling. Like I said earlier, a few of these dates with some milk is a perfectly satisfying iftar.
    Actually you can get Majdool dates from any Whole Foods store. They are amazing.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Badsha View Post
    Sorry bhai. My Iftaar is more like a TOTAL PIG OUT. Not some dates and milk..

    ...but I'm going to change that this time iA. Going to remain human.
    Dates are very nutritious and also have loads of calories, good calories though.


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    Quote Originally Posted by saadibaba View Post
    Dates are very nutritious and also have loads of calories, good calories though.

    True but I finish trays of Lasagne or 14 oz of steak usually

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    Quote Originally Posted by saadibaba View Post
    Actually you can get Majdool dates from any Whole Foods store. They are amazing.
    Yeah, they're usually at Whole Foods and the more upscale supermarkets. Probably not at the local Walmart.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Badsha View Post
    True but I finish trays of Lasagne or 14 oz of steak usually
    Than you should swim like Michael Phelps to burn it all off.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Badsha View Post
    Sorry bhai. My Iftaar is more like a TOTAL PIG OUT. Not some dates and milk..

    ...but I'm going to change that this time iA. Going to remain human.
    Well you're a young man, and 6'4'' if I remember correctly.

    Us older 5'11'' types can get by on dates and milk ;)


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    Tim to stop all mischeives and be a good girl..

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    I have actually not fasted for a single day in my life!!
    Not even on navratri's

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    In-fact I don't stop eating meat also on navratri's

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