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    Do you believe in the hype of Valentines Day?

    It may be the sour grapes for me but I don't believe in the Valentines Day hype. Like why would you want to waste money on this day when you have birthdays to do that?

    It's sad for me when my friends who are not probably the best looking have partners when I am single

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    Moral of the story: what/how you speak goes a long way than looks.

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    No.

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    Yes. I don't mind spending money on buying gifts. You probably shouldn't be in a relationship if you do.

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    Depends if you believe in having girlfriends

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    Not surprised the OP is single. Single Asian men wont believe in Valentines day until they get married.


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    No.

    Itís dumb like Motherís Day or Labour Day.

    You should cherish your parents and respect the workers everyday; you donít need a specific day to remind you of this.

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    Quote Originally Posted by KingKhanWC View Post
    Not surprised the OP is single. Single Asian men wont believe in Valentines day until they get married.
    I believe in Valentines Day but I donít get the point of it when there are birthdays. I have no interest in getting married anytime soon anyways

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    Quote Originally Posted by minamino View Post
    I believe in Valentines Day
    What about unicorns and the tooth fairy

    Anyway it's just a capitalist hallmark invention but thanks for reminding me, have to get the Mrs some flowers and chocolate on my way back from work tomorrow.

    I get her flowers twice a month from the local traders but the look on her face during Valentines Day or any other special occasion is much more appreciative and welcomed which while worthwhile makes me wonder if the other occasions are actually sincere.

    All in all, it doesn't really matter as long as it makes her happy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by minamino View Post
    I believe in Valentines Day but I don’t get the point of it when there are birthdays. I have no interest in getting married anytime soon anyways
    Never realised it was a belief. What do you believe?


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    No, I don't believe in it.


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    Valentine's Day is fun during school/college times after that it's just boring

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    No,I don't even like my birthday as the ones who don't talk to me that much,they seem nice and treat me as my brother which I don't like just for 1 day.

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    If you're married or have a gf, you have no choice but to believe in it...

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    Never had a girlfriend and don't want one also. I like to keep it halal and I am only interested in wife.

    I personally feel that Valentine's Day is a very big scam. People waste money unnecessarily on this day. You can show your love all year long; no need to have a special day for it.


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    Quote Originally Posted by sweep_shot View Post
    Never had a girlfriend and don't want one also. I like to keep it halal and I am only interested in wife.

    I personally feel that Valentine's Day is a very big scam. People waste money unnecessarily on this day. You can show your love all year long; no need to have a special day for it.
    If it's your principle, then it's OK.

    But I don't get where money comes in valentine day. It's the two people involved who will decide whether it is justified to spend money or not.

    For example, in my past relationships, we just spent time together and didn't go for buying gifts etc. It's an understanding that the two people mutually should have. If you can't afford it but still get pressurized, then the problem isn't valentine day but it's in the relationship itself.

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    Had to fork out 10,000 INR on a gift today

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    To me, it’s very simple.

    If you are guy who loves the dating scene and buys flowers and gifts for your “girlfriend” then you should man up, and talk to your own sister and openly allow her go out on date, and take gifts and flowers from her supposedly “boyfriend”.

    I think it’s a fair deal. Isn’t it?

    May be you don’t have a sister?
    No problem.
    You will probably have a daughter - so get ready to let her date and do all the things you did in your dating years with however many “girlfriends” you had.

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    Quote Originally Posted by minamino View Post
    It may be the sour grapes for me but I don't believe in the Valentines Day hype. Like why would you want to waste money on this day when you have birthdays to do that?

    It's sad for me when my friends who are not probably the best looking have partners when I am single
    What sort of a friend are you if you feel sad that they have partners and think you deserve better because they are not as good looking?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Colorblind Genius View Post
    To me, it’s very simple.

    If you are guy who loves the dating scene and buys flowers and gifts for your “girlfriend” then you should man up, and talk to your own sister and openly allow her go out on date, and take gifts and flowers from her supposedly “boyfriend”.

    I think it’s a fair deal. Isn’t it?

    May be you don’t have a sister?
    No problem.
    You will probably have a daughter - so get ready to let her date and do all the things you did in your dating years with however many “girlfriends” you had.
    I'm a complete hypocrite in that regard. I don't have a sister, but I'm pretty sure I'll be very skeptical to let my daughter date guys without me knowing them inside out.


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    Hype? What hype?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hitman View Post
    I'm a complete hypocrite in that regard. I don't have a sister, but I'm pretty sure I'll be very skeptical to let my daughter date guys without me knowing them inside out.
    Well you could always date them first.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gilly View Post
    Well you could always date them first.
    Date my daughter's prospect?


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    Quote Originally Posted by Colorblind Genius View Post
    To me, it’s very simple.

    If you are guy who loves the dating scene and buys flowers and gifts for your “girlfriend” then you should man up, and talk to your own sister and openly allow her go out on date, and take gifts and flowers from her supposedly “boyfriend”.

    I think it’s a fair deal. Isn’t it?

    May be you don’t have a sister?
    No problem.
    You will probably have a daughter - so get ready to let her date and do all the things you did in your dating years with however many “girlfriends” you had.
    Dating is haraam. Only " decent arranged marrriage for the women in the family " crew here.

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    A simple NO!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Colorblind Genius View Post
    To me, it’s very simple.

    If you are guy who loves the dating scene and buys flowers and gifts for your “girlfriend” then you should man up, and talk to your own sister and openly allow her go out on date, and take gifts and flowers from her supposedly “boyfriend”.

    I think it’s a fair deal. Isn’t it?

    May be you don’t have a sister?
    No problem.
    You will probably have a daughter - so get ready to let her date and do all the things you did in your dating years with however many “girlfriends” you had.
    What is wrong in that? Two consenting adults can go on dates, nothing wrong in that.

    You are assuming vulgar things which happens in a relationship in your mind (because you have a sick mindset) so you think relationships are bad. Hopefully one day you will understand things.

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    I think after a certain age you shouldn't have any involvement in your daughter's or sister's personal life.

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    Valentine's day is a propaganda by card, chocolate and novelty item companies to boost profits which is also endorsed alot by females.

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    Quote Originally Posted by liam26 View Post
    Dating is haraam. Only " decent arranged marrriage for the women in the family " crew here.
    Most of your posts are just trolling,
    As far as Haram is concerned,People still do the things which are haram.

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    Never been a fan of this holiday. Seems like capitalistic greed to me.

    We already are obligated to buy gifts for Birthday, Anniversary, Eid, and "Just Because". Seems like one gift too many.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Colorblind Genius View Post
    To me, it’s very simple.

    If you are guy who loves the dating scene and buys flowers and gifts for your “girlfriend” then you should man up, and talk to your own sister and openly allow her go out on date, and take gifts and flowers from her supposedly “boyfriend”.

    I think it’s a fair deal. Isn’t it?

    May be you don’t have a sister?
    No problem.
    You will probably have a daughter - so get ready to let her date and do all the things you did in your dating years with however many “girlfriends” you had.
    I've no issues with my sister dating a guy. I would rather try to give a platform where she can talk about her relationship (which will give an insight to the guy she's dating) and meet him THAN hiding it from all others only to end up with a messy situation.

    Guys will like girls, girls will like guys and mix match. You can't prevent a natural flow. What you can do is, guide them so that they atleast learn how to differentiate good ones from rotten tomatoes.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gharib Aadmi View Post
    Never been a fan of this holiday. Seems like capitalistic greed to me.

    We already are obligated to buy gifts for Birthday, Anniversary, Eid, and "Just Because". Seems like one gift too many.
    You nailed it.

    Capitalism is a disease. Valentine's Day is a symptom of that disease.


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    Nope. But only because Mrs Robert hates it. If my wife bought into it, I would too.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Robert View Post
    Nope. But only because Mrs Robert hates it. If my wife bought into it, I would too.
    You sure?
    My wife always says she hates it, everything goes up in price and it’s just a complete waste of money.
    But then when I turn up with a dozen overpriced roses her eyes light up and you just know she’s in a great mood...

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    Quote Originally Posted by IMMY69 View Post
    You sure?
    My wife always says she hates it, everything goes up in price and it’s just a complete waste of money.
    But then when I turn up with a dozen overpriced roses her eyes light up and you just know she’s in a great mood...
    Yeah. I bring her roses for no reason at random dates and she prefers that.

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    It's plain marketing. Book a restaurant table on 14th, at premium price. But same table on 15, it's your regular price. It's propaganda, hype and fooling common people. I guess it's also part of society, as we all want to do same trendy things.

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    First valentinesday being alone after 4 years. I never cared about valentines day ever, but for some reason, as I age i felt lonely and sad.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gharib Aadmi View Post
    Never been a fan of this holiday. Seems like capitalistic greed to me.

    We already are obligated to buy gifts for Birthday, Anniversary, Eid, and "Just Because". Seems like one gift too many.
    Your post suits your username perfectly and YES i agree with your post

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    Quote Originally Posted by Realromeo View Post
    First valentinesday being alone after 4 years. I never cared about valentines day ever, but for some reason, as I age i felt lonely and sad.
    I have been alone on Valentines day since forever

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    I went for a romatic meal at McDonald's. The filet was great


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    Quote Originally Posted by minamino View Post
    I have been alone on Valentines day since forever
    I have been single all my life too. It's not too bad. Better than being in a haram relation.


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