what does it mean when a girl says...

[J-Essence]

i am a student employee in my university library, a few weeks ago we had a new employee but i never worked with her until this last week.....first thing she said when she saw me was...."Where have you been all my life?" i somewhat blushed and struggled to find a respond....i smiled and said "here i am now"....what can this mean? i thought it was just an informal introduction but she seemed very interested in me and we talked for hours getting to know each other....and she just wanted to hear more and more stories about my Pakistan. i started to think she was really meaning what she said but then i thought i could be just over reacting....she is a very cute white brunette and knows a lot about Arabic people cuz she lived in Arabic community for 2 years. she sounded very genuine and what made me like her even more was her stand on being a virgin until she gets married. i found it hard to believe because girls/boys in American society don't have restrictions on them. i have never dated a girl before in my last 10 years in America because i was too shy to make the first move. i also never had decent girls make a move on me because i never went to bars or clubs....but i have a chance here... i am a pathan and satisfied with my looks/personality.....is there hope for me?... i think i am falling for a white girl which i was personally against until this week.... is it wrong?

[Easa]

Of course its not wrong - enjoy yourself, you are obviously big enough to make your own decisions so do whatever you need to do. Good luck!

[Oxy]

You 're not the only one who has been 'hit on 'this week.

On Tuesday I was chatting away to this Pakistani girl who out of the blue she pointed at someone and said 'that girl fancies you'.

NOT heard that since my school days!

(Yes, she was human)

I thought about it later on and told my wife - who seemed quite proud of me.

Then she kicked me hard...

[J-Essence]

Originally Posted by Easa Of course its not wrong - enjoy yourself, you are obviously big enough to make your own decisions so do whatever you need to do. Good luck!

yes definitely but just have to think twice for the sake of desi parents....also ......the thing is i have never asked a girl out and i will run to mars before i have to guts to ask a girl out....i need to somehow know wat to do or overcome my fears lol....ill know where i stand soon inshallah

[J-Essence]

Originally Posted by Oxy You 're not the only one who has been 'hit on 'this week. On Tuesday I was chatting away to this Pakistani girl who out of the blue she pointed at someone and said 'that girl fancies you'. NOT heard that since my school days! (Yes, she was human) I thought about it later on and told my wife - who seemed quite proud of me. Then she kicked me hard...

lol...thank God i am not married yet....

[Plasma]

Originally Posted by Oxy You 're not the only one who has been 'hit on 'this week. On Tuesday I was chatting away to this Pakistani girl who out of the blue she pointed at someone and said 'that girl fancies you'. NOT heard that since my school days! (Yes, she was human) I thought about it later on and told my wife - who seemed quite proud of me. Then she kicked me hard...

LOL!! oxy bhai you just made my day...

[Ghoshtbuster]

Originally Posted by J-Essence i am a student employee in my university library, a few weeks ago we had a new employee but i never worked with her until this last week.....first thing she said when she saw me was...."Where have you been all my life?" i somewhat blushed and struggled to find a respond....i smiled and said "here i am now"....what can this mean? i thought it was just an informal introduction but she seemed very interested in me and we talked for hours getting to know each other....and she just wanted to hear more and more stories about my Pakistan. i started to think she was really meaning what she said but then i thought i could be just over reacting....she is a very cute white brunette and knows a lot about Arabic people cuz she lived in Arabic community for 2 years. she sounded very genuine and what made me like her even more was her stand on being a virgin until she gets married. i found it hard to believe because girls/boys in American society don't have restrictions on them. i have never dated a girl before in my last 10 years in America because i was too shy to make the first move. i also never had decent girls make a move on me because i never went to bars or clubs....but i have a chance here... i am a pathan and satisfied with my looks/personality.....is there hope for me?... i think i am falling for a white girl which i was personally against until this week.... is it wrong?

whys that?

[Aurangzeb]

Originally Posted by Easa Of course its not wrong - enjoy yourself, you are obviously big enough to make your own decisions so do whatever you need to do. Good luck!

gotta love advice from a 14 year old...

[iZeeshan]

Originally Posted by Oxy You 're not the only one who has been 'hit on 'this week. On Tuesday I was chatting away to this Pakistani girl who out of the blue she pointed at someone and said 'that girl fancies you'. NOT heard that since my school days! (Yes, she was human) I thought about it later on and told my wife - who seemed quite proud of me. Then she kicked me hard...

Oxy! Classic!

[Oxy]

Originally Posted by Aurangzeb gotta love advice from a 14 year old...

I preferred my advice - 'if you (still) got it...flaunt it...and dont tell the missus'!

[MCMLXXXII]

For more advice, please search for the "My Dilemma" thread in timepass.

[Medic]

Originally Posted by MCMLXXXII For more advice, please search for the "My Dilemma" thread in timepass.

LOL you sound like the person from the end of adverts..."for more information....."

[siddharth]

I feel really painful for these young guys ,they have to bear so much pressure in such a young age! poor fellas.

[siddharth]

Originally Posted by Oxy You 're not the only one who has been 'hit on 'this week. On Tuesday I was chatting away to this Pakistani girl who out of the blue she pointed at someone and said 'that girl fancies you'. NOT heard that since my school days! (Yes, she was human) I thought about it later on and told my wife - who seemed quite proud of me. Then she kicked me hard...

I request all heart patients ,high BP ones and also those suffering from depression to visit PP and read ''Oxy'' comments .U can avoid buying medicines and save money

[J-Essence]

Originally Posted by Ghoshtbuster whys that?

i suppose too much pressure.....can't deal with desi parents but most of all relatives sinking me down..here and especially in Pakistan....dating and marriage outside of race not common within my family/relatives....

[Monsee]

Originally Posted by J-Essence i am a student employee in my university library, a few weeks ago we had a new employee but i never worked with her until this last week.....first thing she said when she saw me was...."Where have you been all my life?" i somewhat blushed and struggled to find a respond....i smiled and said "here i am now"....what can this mean? i thought it was just an informal introduction but she seemed very interested in me and we talked for hours getting to know each other....and she just wanted to hear more and more stories about my Pakistan. i started to think she was really meaning what she said but then i thought i could be just over reacting....she is a very cute white brunette and knows a lot about Arabic people cuz she lived in Arabic community for 2 years. she sounded very genuine and what made me like her even more was her stand on being a virgin until she gets married. i found it hard to believe because girls/boys in American society don't have restrictions on them. i have never dated a girl before in my last 10 years in America because i was too shy to make the first move. i also never had decent girls make a move on me because i never went to bars or clubs....but i have a chance here... i am a pathan and satisfied with my looks/personality.....is there hope for me?... i think i am falling for a white girl which i was personally against until this week.... is it wrong?

Your case is the classic case...a girl totally in to you, virgin (so she told you), digs the culture, and you like her too!

I have seen this scenario repeated quite a few times in my life time with a few friends/family...and with the exception of one cousin, all have been divorced or seperated by now!

You must tread very carefully...that is my two cents worth!

[Ghoshtbuster]

Originally Posted by J-Essence i suppose too much pressure.....can't deal with desi parents but most of all relatives sinking me down..here and especially in Pakistan....dating and marriage outside of race not common within my family/relatives....

But if you thought she was worth it, would you?

[Shoaib Akhtar's Fan]

Yeah dude .. dont think twice just go for it... if you have really strong feelings for her then her being white shoudn't matter at all... and hey are u looking to get married to this girl ?

[Easa]

Originally Posted by Aurangzeb gotta love advice from a 14 year old...

you high on something? cause i have a real craving for what you're having..

[Amir]

Originally Posted by Easa you high on something? cause i have a real craving for what you're having..

Sorry, people at your age should not be doing drugs. Plus never do them, they are bad for you. I never done them and I plan to stay that way. Baraaa Bhaiyya has to set a example for his Munna Bhaiyya

J-Essence, I say.....go for it and go with the flow and see where it takes you. Whenever I like a girl or she likes me...the first thing I think to myself "Is there a future here?"

Stupid as it sounds but its like "Is this a person I could bring home one day and be accepted?" Like I have blew off some chances...just because the girl may be a hindu (sounds wrong, but read on to understand) or something bad....which I could never see my parents agreeing too.

[JammydodgA]

Originally Posted by Amir Sorry, people at your age should not be doing drugs. Plus never do them, they are bad for you. I never done them and I plan to stay that way. Baraaa Bhaiyya has to set a example for his Munna Bhaiyya J-Essence, I say.....go for it and go with the flow and see where it takes you. Whenever I like a girl or she likes me...the first thing I think to myself "Is there a future here?" Stupid as it sounds but its like "Is this a person I could bring home one day and be accepted?" Like I have blew off some chances...just because the girl may be a hindu (sounds wrong, but read on to understand) or something bad....which I could never see my parents agreeing too.

I don't see what's so wrong about.

I might get slated for saying that but I'm gonna say it anyway

[Zechariah]

GO for it if you are serious about her and see a future and if its feasble [goota keep the thoughts of family in mind etc, family values]

STOP right here if you see obstacles coming your way from family or etc.

[Geordie Ahmed]

Originally Posted by sam1eh I don't see what's so wrong about. I might get slated for saying that but I'm gonna say it anyway

wrong about? marrying a hindu?

well muslims shudnt, well thats if they choose to follow that, tho you do get muslims marrying Hindus

[JammydodgA]

Originally Posted by Geordie Ahmed wrong about? marrying a hindu? well muslims shudnt, well thats if they choose to follow that, tho you do get muslims marrying Hindus

No kidding lol

I was talking about this bit:

the first thing I think to myself "Is there a future here?" Stupid as it sounds but its like "Is this a person I could bring home one day and be accepted?" Like I have blew off some chances...just because the girl may be a hindu (sounds wrong, but read on to understand) or something bad....which I could never see my parents agreeing too.

My point is there are people who get together (some, just for the sake of it) without thinking about the future or their/each others' families (or not caring about either)

[Geordie Ahmed]

Originally Posted by sam1eh No kidding lol I was talking about this bit: My point is there are people who get together (some, just for the sake of it) without thinking about the future or their/each others' families (or not caring about either)

Oh i see - that makes sense

[Amir]

Originally Posted by Geordie Ahmed wrong about? marrying a hindu? well muslims shudnt, well thats if they choose to follow that, tho you do get muslims marrying Hindus

Damn, Geordie we seem to be on the same page lately.....is this the turn of the corner? (or atleast until August ;) I guess you have your off-season too?)

My point is there are people who get together (some, just for the sake of it) without thinking about the future or their/each others' families (or not caring about either)

Well I never said there were not people who do it, tonnes of my friends do it. But I am speaking from a personal stand point. To me, whats the point of being in a meaningless relationship...if it has no future.

[JammydodgA]

Amir, I was agreeing with what you were saying

[PlanetPakistan]

Originally Posted by Oxy You 're not the only one who has been 'hit on 'this week. On Tuesday I was chatting away to this Pakistani girl who out of the blue she pointed at someone and said 'that girl fancies you'. NOT heard that since my school days! (Yes, she was human) I thought about it later on and told my wife - who seemed quite proud of me. Then she kicked me hard...

...

waisay Is this a love season on PP? because every week there seems to be a new "love" thread.

[Sabika]

didnt you just meet her
youre not in love yet
ask your parents for thier opinion on white girls and marraige
and if they dont like it dont let yourself fall in love
you really dont want drama later in life with your parents upset etc.

no one can really judge this girl
if you say she was genuine then she was genuine

[hasbeen]

Originally Posted by J-Essence i am a student employee in my university library, a few weeks ago we had a new employee but i never worked with her until this last week.....first thing she said when she saw me was...."Where have you been all my life?" i somewhat blushed and struggled to find a respond....i smiled and said "here i am now"....what can this mean? i thought it was just an informal introduction but she seemed very interested in me and we talked for hours getting to know each other....and she just wanted to hear more and more stories about my Pakistan. i started to think she was really meaning what she said but then i thought i could be just over reacting....she is a very cute white brunette and knows a lot about Arabic people cuz she lived in Arabic community for 2 years. she sounded very genuine and what made me like her even more was her stand on being a virgin until she gets married. i found it hard to believe because girls/boys in American society don't have restrictions on them. i have never dated a girl before in my last 10 years in America because i was too shy to make the first move. i also never had decent girls make a move on me because i never went to bars or clubs....but i have a chance here... i am a pathan and satisfied with my looks/personality.....is there hope for me?... i think i am falling for a white girl which i was personally against until this week.... is it wrong?

well she sounds like a decent girl so it doesnt matter what race she is. If you like her and she likes you, then take it one step at a time. dont tell your parents anything yet because they will kick your pathan a$$.

Get to know her a bit more before you decide to ask her out. It might just be the fact that for the first time in your life you got a bit of attention from a girl and thus you think she is perfect etc.. Dont rush into it as it might just be lust and not love.

PS aint you the same guy who is in love with the girl who posts her videos on youtube

[Asim2Good]

Originally Posted by J-Essence i am a student employee in my university library, a few weeks ago we had a new employee but i never worked with her until this last week.....first thing she said when she saw me was...."Where have you been all my life?" i somewhat blushed and struggled to find a respond....i smiled and said "here i am now"....what can this mean? i thought it was just an informal introduction but she seemed very interested in me and we talked for hours getting to know each other....and she just wanted to hear more and more stories about my Pakistan. i started to think she was really meaning what she said but then i thought i could be just over reacting....she is a very cute white brunette and knows a lot about Arabic people cuz she lived in Arabic community for 2 years. she sounded very genuine and what made me like her even more was her stand on being a virgin until she gets married. i found it hard to believe because girls/boys in American society don't have restrictions on them. i have never dated a girl before in my last 10 years in America because i was too shy to make the first move. i also never had decent girls make a move on me because i never went to bars or clubs....but i have a chance here... i am a pathan and satisfied with my looks/personality.....is there hope for me?... i think i am falling for a white girl which i was personally against until this week.... is it wrong?

hope she is not asking meaning of those words in another forum

[Sabika]

Originally Posted by hasbeen well she sounds like a decent girl so it doesnt matter what race she is. If you like her and she likes you, then take it one step at a time. dont tell your parents anything yet because they will kick your pathan a$$. Get to know her a bit more before you decide to ask her out. It might just be the fact that for the first time in your life you got a bit of attention from a girl and thus you think she is perfect etc.. Dont rush into it as it might just be lust and not love. PS aint you the same guy who is in love with the girl who posts her videos on youtube

thats whati was wondering
talk about wearing your heart on your sleeve

[Sabika]

oh man he is that same guy
get a hold of your self mate
pull yourself together

[hasbeen]

Originally Posted by Sabika oh man he is that same guy get a hold of your self mate pull yourself together

lol leave the bechara alone. he will learn with experience

[J-Essence]

Originally Posted by Sabika oh man he is that same guy get a hold of your self mate pull yourself together

yaar liking famous youtube girl is compared to liking a celebrity......who doesn't like celebrities, you can't be serious.....sorry if all this is making me sound desperate....but i assure you that i have held myself together for maybe far to long.....but recently i feel something will happen in a week or two....thanks for everyones suggestion....

[hasbeen]

Originally Posted by J-Essence yaar liking famous youtube girl is compared to liking a celebrity......who doesn't like celebrities, you can't be serious.....sorry if all this is making me sound desperate....but i assure you that i have held myself together for maybe far to long.....but recently i feel something will happen in a week or two....thanks for everyones suggestion....

how old are you?

[PlanetPakistan]

Originally Posted by Sabika didnt you just meet her youre not in love yet ask your parents for thier opinion on white girls and marraige and if they dont like it dont let yourself fall in love you really dont want drama later in life with your parents upset etc. no one can really judge this girl if you say she was genuine then she was genuine

what if it was a "free fall" and he is already in love

Originally Posted by Sabika oh man he is that same guy get a hold of your self mate pull yourself together

[Pathan007]

ya laka, nizde lar nashe. zaan pa ghulo ke macho. asey ba zanta problem jor ke.

[Straight Bat]

Originally Posted by Pathan007 ya laka, nizde lar nashe. zaan pa ghulo ke macho. asey ba zanta problem jor ke.

Agreed, but maybe he can make it work

[Asim2Good]

oye ya laka, kia ghusar phusar karti hai oye

[Gujar]

This White girl fell for me once. Actually she fell on me but same thing.

[madaboutlfc]

britney was also a virgin till justin leaked it out..

[The Blazer]

Dude, just ask her out. It's no big deal; it's not like you're asking her to marry you. All relationships come to an end eventually; what you have to do is make the best of the time that you are given.

[PlanetPakistan]

Originally Posted by The Blazer Dude, just ask her out. It's no big deal; it's not like you're asking her to marry you. All relationships come to an end eventually; what you have to do is make the best of the time that you are given.

you shouldn't think like that.

[hasbeen]

Originally Posted by PlanetPakistan you shouldn't think like that.

yes you shouldnt but sometimes you have to be realistic and realise that it wont last forever.

[madaboutlfc]

Originally Posted by hasbeen yes you shouldnt but sometimes you have to be realistic and realise that it wont last forever.

boys are being realistic here.. just think of it like an afridi innings.. pretty exciting for as long as it lasts

[Pathan007]

Originally Posted by madaboutlfc boys are being realistic here.. just think of it like an afridi innings.. pretty exciting for as long as it lasts

and it lasts even more in hereafter.

[JammydodgA]

I'm with PlanetPakistan on this one

[hasbeen]

Originally Posted by sam1eh I'm with PlanetPakistan on this one

lets hope you two last then our first PP marriage

[MCMLXXXII]

Originally Posted by hasbeen lets hope you two last then our first PP marriage

Then at least this site would live up to its name!

[The Blazer]

Originally Posted by PlanetPakistan you shouldn't think like that.

It's the truth though. I'm not being pessimistic, but all good things do come to an end. What I'm trying to say is that you need to acknowledge that and make the best of the time you have.

[Muzy]

get to know her a bit as you will be spending time with her at work, you'll gradually find out how she feels about you, say if she said she would want to meet you outside of work im sure you would go, why dont u ask her, its not like asking her out its like you wana talk properly and freely outside of work so no harm in that buddy

goodluck!!

[J-Essence]

Originally Posted by Muzy get to know her a bit as you will be spending time with her at work, you'll gradually find out how she feels about you, say if she said she would want to meet you outside of work im sure you would go, why dont u ask her, its not like asking her out its like you wana talk properly and freely outside of work so no harm in that buddy goodluck!!

that makes a lot of sense, i will meet her this sunday for full 6 hour shift. sunday, we will have no faculty at our department so i am sure we would have much more time to talk.....i will be a bit more nervous this time i feel....but i will go with the flow as many have suggested on here....i am trying not to be too serious abt her, until i feel its worth it, or at least i know her a bit more...its hard....i will be very upset if she is acting totally different from how she did the first time i met her.....it would be cruel....cuz she seemed very interested in me...lets see....ill know a bit more abt her on sunday...thanks everyone

[J-Essence]

Originally Posted by hasbeen lets hope you two last then our first PP marriage

i would love to make that record....at least our ties with the American cricket board would strengthen....

PS: i am 22

[J-Essence]

Originally Posted by Pathan007 ya laka, nizde lar nashe. zaan pa ghulo ke macho. asey ba zanta problem jor ke.

aoo kana yaar mor plaar ba meh be-kora kee....especially my dad....zika peh dair sooch kom....

[J-Essence]

Originally Posted by Ghoshtbuster But if you thought she was worth it, would you?

i suppose yes...but very much depends on how she feels abt me

[from_da_lost_dim3nsion]

do let us kno whatever happens on sunday !

[Disco_Lemonade]

Arry.. i thought this guy had a crush on some swedish pakistani? what happpened of that chic?

[The Godfather]

Originally Posted by uzzie01 Arry.. i thought this guy had a crush on some swedish pakistani? what happpened of that chic?

he did but moved on

[PlanetPakistan]

Originally Posted by uzzie01 Arry.. i thought this guy had a crush on some swedish pakistani? what happpened of that chic?

he crushed her hopes

[PlanetPakistan]

Originally Posted by The Blazer It's the truth though. I'm not being pessimistic, but all good things do come to an end. What I'm trying to say is that you need to acknowledge that and make the best of the time you have.

Call me old fashioned but IMO if you enter a relationship with that mind set then it means that it's nothing more than "time pass".
I would hate to date a girl who has a timer set for me.

[The Blazer]

Originally Posted by PlanetPakistan Call me old fashioned but IMO if you enter a relationship with that mind set then it means that it's nothing more than "time pass". I would hate to date a girl who has a timer set for me.

Hmm, that's the way things are these days though, yaar. I get the impression that some members think that going out with someone usually leads to marriage, which is rarely the case. It's just a bit of fun!

[Talisa]

I hope it works out for you both J-Essence.
She sounds like she is very interested in you.
Just relax and be yourself .

[Pathan007]

peera, nan sa chal osho?

[Wiji]

Originally Posted by J-Essence i am a student employee in my university library, a few weeks ago we had a new employee but i never worked with her until this last week.....first thing she said when she saw me was...."Where have you been all my life?"

Mate, I don't know about you, but the first thing I would've thought is 'What a creep!!'

[12thMan]

oh man, why can't Avenger have this luck

[Jayed]

I need some help as well...

[MCMLXXXII]

Originally Posted by Jayed I need some help as well...

I ask the mods to create a new subforum where all these desperate folks looking for advice can ask their questions and receive proper guidance. Looking at the popularity these threads get, I am sure the mods can see that the new subforum is warranted.

[The Blazer]

Originally Posted by MCMLXXXII I ask the mods to create a new subforum where all these desperate folks looking for advice can ask their questions and receive proper guidance. Looking at the popularity these threads get, I am sure the mods can see that the new subforum is warranted.

[12thMan]

Originally Posted by Jayed I need some help as well...

you are a humble person. You even need help with clothes to wear

[Jayed]

Originally Posted by 12thMan you are a humble person. You even need help with clothes to wear

So...can you help me out?

[J-Essence]

for those who wanted an updated on sunday @ work

sunday me and tracy just sat behind the front desk as usual and we talked in more detail about similar things from day one....i was determined to do whatever it takes to express my interest in her….it sorta took off from the way we left off, just as i hoped....i couldn't bring anything up about taking her out, because 1, i was nervous just thinking abt saying anything that would make her feel that i am asking her out and 2. no conversation could lead to anything, because it seemed like we were always talking about the past...i thought at one moment it was getting quite boring for her so i just told her that i need to go to copy center on 2nd floor to make copies. but she came along cuz she said, she's never toured other parts of the library....things kind of picked up on the way and I kinda got in a mess when I really didn’t have anything to do at the copy center. I asked if she wanted a library tour so that I could hide the fact that I have no business at the copy-center. Our library is massive and it took well over 50 minutes to show her around. I got combatable and became somewhat my real self and goofed around a bit while she simply started making jokes at me..i used the word goofy cuz she described it that way... I was told by the guy who trained me once that the forth floor east of our university library was in playboy magazine for one of the safest place to have sex in public area. I somehow found the guts to spill that fact out to her, I didn’t know if it would be appropriate for her but I was in a goofy mood. She was laughing and agreed to that possibility and then the tour was finished…on our way back I caught up with an Asian girl who was my bio lab partner 2 semesters ago and I kind of got very surprised when tracy immediately started asking questions about her. Around lunch time we took a break together @ the cyber cafe within our library and yes I paid for her Cappuccino. I think buying her drink did quite the trick cuz for first time she started talking abt her personal past. She talked about her experience with guys in the past and I found it appropriate to ask her if she was single. I don’t wanna make this too long as I can go on forever, but she said she was single and I sorta had the guts to celebrate the word “single” that moment, which she laughed about. Nothing more happened, I didn’t ask her out nor give her my number…..the only last thing exciting she said was that she hopes that the boss keeps her in training with me….

[The Blazer]

Originally Posted by J-Essence for those who wanted an updated on sunday @ work sunday me and tracy just sat behind the front desk as usual and we talked in more detail about similar things from day one....i was determined to do whatever it takes to express my interest in her….it sorta took off from the way we left off, just as i hoped....i couldn't bring anything up about taking her out, because 1, i was nervous just thinking abt saying anything that would make her feel that i am asking her out and 2. no conversation could lead to anything, because it seemed like we were always talking about the past...i thought at one moment it was getting quite boring for her so i just told her that i need to go to copy center on 2nd floor to make copies. but she came along cuz she said, she's never toured other parts of the library....things kind of picked up on the way and I kinda got in a mess when I really didn’t have anything to do at the copy center. I asked if she wanted a library tour so that I could hide the fact that I have no business at the copy-center. Our library is massive and it took well over 50 minutes to show her around. I got combatable and became somewhat my real self and goofed around a bit while she simply started making jokes at me..i used the word goofy cuz she described it that way... I was told by the guy who trained me once that the forth floor east of our university library was in playboy magazine for one of the safest place to have sex in public area. I somehow found the guts to spill that fact out to her, I didn’t know if it would be appropriate for her but I was in a goofy mood. She was laughing and agreed to that possibility and then the tour was finished…on our way back I caught up with an Asian girl who was my bio lab partner 2 semesters ago and I kind of got very surprised when tracy immediately started asking questions about her. Around lunch time we took a break together @ the cyber cafe within our library and yes I paid for her Cappuccino. I think buying her drink did quite the trick cuz for first time she started talking abt her personal past. She talked about her experience with guys in the past and I found it appropriate to ask her if she was single. I don’t wanna make this too long as I can go on forever, but she said she was single and I sorta had the guts to celebrate the word “single” that moment, which she laughed about. Nothing more happened, I didn’t ask her out nor give her my number…..the only last thing exciting she said was that she hopes that the boss keeps her in training with me….

Good man.

Things should go smoothly from here. Least you now know that she is indeed interested in you.

[Ghoshtbuster]

Originally Posted by J-Essence for those who wanted an updated on sunday @ work sunday me and tracy just sat behind the front desk as usual and we talked in more detail about similar things from day one....i was determined to do whatever it takes to express my interest in her….it sorta took off from the way we left off, just as i hoped....i couldn't bring anything up about taking her out, because 1, i was nervous just thinking abt saying anything that would make her feel that i am asking her out and 2. no conversation could lead to anything, because it seemed like we were always talking about the past...i thought at one moment it was getting quite boring for her so i just told her that i need to go to copy center on 2nd floor to make copies. but she came along cuz she said, she's never toured other parts of the library....things kind of picked up on the way and I kinda got in a mess when I really didn’t have anything to do at the copy center. I asked if she wanted a library tour so that I could hide the fact that I have no business at the copy-center. Our library is massive and it took well over 50 minutes to show her around. I got combatable and became somewhat my real self and goofed around a bit while she simply started making jokes at me..i used the word goofy cuz she described it that way... I was told by the guy who trained me once that the forth floor east of our university library was in playboy magazine for one of the safest place to have sex in public area. I somehow found the guts to spill that fact out to her, I didn’t know if it would be appropriate for her but I was in a goofy mood. She was laughing and agreed to that possibility and then the tour was finished…on our way back I caught up with an Asian girl who was my bio lab partner 2 semesters ago and I kind of got very surprised when tracy immediately started asking questions about her. Around lunch time we took a break together @ the cyber cafe within our library and yes I paid for her Cappuccino. I think buying her drink did quite the trick cuz for first time she started talking abt her personal past. She talked about her experience with guys in the past and I found it appropriate to ask her if she was single. I don’t wanna make this too long as I can go on forever, but she said she was single and I sorta had the guts to celebrate the word “single” that moment, which she laughed about. Nothing more happened, I didn’t ask her out nor give her my number…..the only last thing exciting she said was that she hopes that the boss keeps her in training with me….

bit of advice: do NOT tell her that you post about your time together on the interweb

[siddharth]

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[kablooee87]

Originally Posted by J-Essence for those who wanted an updated on sunday @ work sunday me and tracy just sat behind the front desk as usual and we talked in more detail about similar things from day one....i was determined to do whatever it takes to express my interest in her….it sorta took off from the way we left off, just as i hoped....i couldn't bring anything up about taking her out, because 1, i was nervous just thinking abt saying anything that would make her feel that i am asking her out and 2. no conversation could lead to anything, because it seemed like we were always talking about the past...i thought at one moment it was getting quite boring for her so i just told her that i need to go to copy center on 2nd floor to make copies. but she came along cuz she said, she's never toured other parts of the library....things kind of picked up on the way and I kinda got in a mess when I really didn’t have anything to do at the copy center. I asked if she wanted a library tour so that I could hide the fact that I have no business at the copy-center. Our library is massive and it took well over 50 minutes to show her around. I got combatable and became somewhat my real self and goofed around a bit while she simply started making jokes at me..i used the word goofy cuz she described it that way... I was told by the guy who trained me once that the forth floor east of our university library was in playboy magazine for one of the safest place to have sex in public area. I somehow found the guts to spill that fact out to her, I didn’t know if it would be appropriate for her but I was in a goofy mood. She was laughing and agreed to that possibility and then the tour was finished…on our way back I caught up with an Asian girl who was my bio lab partner 2 semesters ago and I kind of got very surprised when tracy immediately started asking questions about her. Around lunch time we took a break together @ the cyber cafe within our library and yes I paid for her Cappuccino. I think buying her drink did quite the trick cuz for first time she started talking abt her personal past. She talked about her experience with guys in the past and I found it appropriate to ask her if she was single. I don’t wanna make this too long as I can go on forever, but she said she was single and I sorta had the guts to celebrate the word “single” that moment, which she laughed about. Nothing more happened, I didn’t ask her out nor give her my number…..the only last thing exciting she said was that she hopes that the boss keeps her in training with me….

now don't screw it up

Seriously though man, I know you were just regurgitating a fact your trainer told you, but think long and hard about the sex part.....you don't want to do something you're going to regret later in life. I don't have a right to tell you what to do, just thought I would get that much out there.

[PlanetPakistan]

Originally Posted by The Blazer Hmm, that's the way things are these days though, yaar. I get the impression that some members think that going out with someone usually leads to marriage, which is rarely the case. It's just a bit of fun!

I am fully aware of what happens these days and the temptations that drive today's youth to act that way...it's just that i feel that "bit of fun" makes a mockery out of the basic principals of our culture.

[Oxy]

I know a cheap place in Faisalabad that prints Wedding Invitations. A few mistakes here and there, but pretty good quality.

You've seen more action than me in one week than I saw in 3 years AFTER my Nikah.

[12thMan]

ask her out and talk to her outside of work otherwise she might take it you are not interested

[PlanetPakistan]

Originally Posted by J-Essence for those who wanted an updated on sunday @ work sunday me and tracy just sat behind the front desk as usual and we talked in more detail about similar things from day one....i was determined to do whatever it takes to express my interest in her….it sorta took off from the way we left off, just as i hoped....i couldn't bring anything up about taking her out, because 1, i was nervous just thinking abt saying anything that would make her feel that i am asking her out and 2. no conversation could lead to anything, because it seemed like we were always talking about the past...i thought at one moment it was getting quite boring for her so i just told her that i need to go to copy center on 2nd floor to make copies. but she came along cuz she said, she's never toured other parts of the library....things kind of picked up on the way and I kinda got in a mess when I really didn’t have anything to do at the copy center. I asked if she wanted a library tour so that I could hide the fact that I have no business at the copy-center. Our library is massive and it took well over 50 minutes to show her around. I got combatable and became somewhat my real self and goofed around a bit while she simply started making jokes at me..i used the word goofy cuz she described it that way... I was told by the guy who trained me once that the forth floor east of our university library was in playboy magazine for one of the safest place to have sex in public area. I somehow found the guts to spill that fact out to her, I didn’t know if it would be appropriate for her but I was in a goofy mood. She was laughing and agreed to that possibility and then the tour was finished…on our way back I caught up with an Asian girl who was my bio lab partner 2 semesters ago and I kind of got very surprised when tracy immediately started asking questions about her. Around lunch time we took a break together @ the cyber cafe within our library and yes I paid for her Cappuccino. I think buying her drink did quite the trick cuz for first time she started talking abt her personal past. She talked about her experience with guys in the past and I found it appropriate to ask her if she was single. I don’t wanna make this too long as I can go on forever, but she said she was single and I sorta had the guts to celebrate the word “single” that moment, which she laughed about. Nothing more happened, I didn’t ask her out nor give her my number…..the only last thing exciting she said was that she hopes that the boss keeps her in training with me….

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